Beach at dusk

Hummingbird

Firey flora

Costa Rican ox cart wheel

Frequently Asked Questions:

What is a Sexy Retreat?

This retreat is a journey, designed to help you connect deeper into yourself, with your partner, and with the Divine. It is about allowing your partner to inspire you to step into being the best man or woman you can be, and inspiring the same in your partner.

How will I benefit from a Sexy Retreat?

You will learn more about your inner erotic self. You will deepen the bond of sacred love with your partner. You will experience the union of your sexual and spiritual energies. You and your partner will be empowered with methods and techniques that you can carry with you for the rest of your lives.

Who attends a Sexy Retreat?

This retreat is designed for couples who crave more. They desire more passion, better love making, improvements in communication skills, greater understanding of each other, and deeper love. This retreat will benefit a variety of couples no matter where they are on their path together.

Will my partner and I be assured a space that feels private and safe?

Destin and Serena are both highly skilled at, and place great attention into, creating a safe container within which profound experiences can take place. All sexual touch will occur solely with your partner. Simply being in this shared space with other couples can be both powerful and inspiring. You will have plenty of time to explore with your partner within your private bungalows.

What exactly is "Sacred Sexuality"?

Sacred sexuality brings attention to sexual union as a powerful spiritual act in which one can go deeper with one's partner, while connecting to the divine. While sacred sex generally means "better sex", it also means a whole lot more. Through the exploration of sacred sexuality, you will experience ripple effects that will ultimately impact all areas of your life.

What exactly will we be learning at Sexy Retreats?

Our workshop time will include speaking presentations about sacred sexuality, question and answer periods, non-explicit group exercises and experiences, live demonstrations, and guided experiences that will take you step-by-step through the process of exploring with your partner.

Is there going to be sexual activity during the seminar? I mean really, is this just going to be a big orgy?

While part of the week will involve learning erotic massage skills, including genital touch techniques, there is no explicit sexual activity, such as intercourse or oral/genital contact, in our seminars. And no, this is not an orgy. You will be exploring solely with your own partner.

Are we all going to be naked?

During our seminars, clothing is optional. However, we want you to stay within your own comfort limits. A good suggestion would be to wear a sarong or light wrap. :) This workshop is not about exhibitionism, nor voyeurism. We place a high degree of attention on creating a safe space in which each individual, and each couple can dive deeply into their own bubble having their own unique experience, while still in an open communal environment.

I'm currently single, can I attend Sexy Retreats by myself?

In short, no. While both Destin and Serena create many offerings that are for both couples and singles, this retreat is specifically designed to create a space in which couples can explore sacred sexuality together.